Alan Hay

1955 - 1995
LocationGateshead (harlow Green)
Age40 years
Cause of DeathBrain Haemorrage
Date of Birth06/05/1955
Date of Death05/06/1995
Visitors2,716 since 07/06/2007
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I have tried on many occasions to create this site in memory of my dear dad. Alan was married to Lynn (Hedley) and had 2 children called John & Beverley .My dad worked as a glazier for many years with his older brother Mick Hay whom he was very close to, and for a sport the 2 of them used to race pigeons in the name of "The Hay Brothers".
Alan was only 40 and seemingly fighting fit when he suddenly died from a massive brain haemorrhage, but the kind-hearted glazier had carried a donor card for years and within hours of his death his organs were being used in life-saving operations across the country.
A 35 year-old man from Oxford had one of his kidneys,
A 30 year-old North East man received his other one,
A 38 year-old Edinburgh womans life was saved by his liver,
A 49 year-old North East man received his heart of Gold,
And a 32 year-old man from Sheffield received one of his lungs.
At the time this was a very hard decision to make by donating his organs , but looking back now we know we have helped 5 people towards a better quality of life.
Dad you left us in the June and your grandson started school in the September so never did get to see him in his school uniform, so ill pop one on here just for you ok.

I would also like add two member's of Alan's family to this site ....
Mons Hedley who was married to John Hedley, and had four Daughters, Lynn, Sheila, Coleen & Gillian who all miss her terribly.xxxxx
Also Tony Hedley who was sadly taken from the family so suddenly. Tony is the Son of Coleen & Bud, brother of Rikki & Liam and uncle of T.J. xxxx

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For my Darling son Tony xxx

Well Tony son i'm so sorry i haven't been on here for such a long time, no excuse realy only that i find it so hard. In anyway son Happy Birthday for today, we all love and miss you as much as ever, your always in our thoughts and we carry you in our hearts always, God Bless my Angel, sleep tight. xxxxxxx PS please watch over your brother Rikki keep him safe, he misses you so much and finds it realy hard not having you around. All our love Rikki,TJ,Liam and you Mam, love you xxxx

Coleen Hedley (Sister-in-Law)

May 4, 2011

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MATE

happy birthday ya lanky bugger haha i miss you loads and carnt wait untill the day we meet again for us to look like little and large again eh hahaha drinking our drink well love you loads spaek to you soon love ya my big pal love sarah nobby charlie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sarah Charlton (Close Friend)

May 4, 2011

message for tony

well i thought i would write on here for you mate i miss you so much even the times you used to get me out my bed and make me walk the streets in my jarmies but them were the good old days eh we had some good laughs we did mate wish you were stil here so we could have even more but i have got a huge cuddley teddy bear and that is called tony not by me its on its hat and i was with your mam the day i bought it we all cuddle it and we even give you a drink at the new year mate well sleep tight my friend and we will party when we meet again love you lots even more then vodka shots ;-)))) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sarah Charlton (Close Friend)

March 20, 2011

A Message For Tony

Hi son, i'm so pleased you made contact through the spirit world, sorry i wasn't there but iv'e got so much going on in my life at the moment. I am so happy your with me at night it gives me a little bit peace of mind, i know you would be devistated at whats went on and stood by me 100% just likeRikki is. Its a realy hard time just wish it was all over and done with, your Dads got a lot to answer for son, all the years wasted! im sure you'd agee its time to move on with our lives, I just want my little boy back, please watch over us son and keep us safe. I know i lost you in a different way and can't fight to have you back but i sure as hell will fight for your little brother back no way will i lose another son! I know what you Nana Mons would do to him if she was here! Thanks mam by the way for my messages from the spirit world i was so happy to know you are watching over me. I will get through this knowing you and Tony are by my side. By the way i'm sorry its been so long since i left a message but i just couldn't bring my self to come on here,been so depressed but i'm pulling my self together now, my aim is to get Liam back and by God i will, please stayby my side and keep me strong ok. Love you loads my darling son, love you mam & dont forget Alan. Miss you all so much.

Coleen Hedley (Sister-in-Law)

July 12, 2010

*♥* A SIMPLE HUG *♥*

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A SIMPLE HUG
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There's something in a simple hug
That always warms the heart.
It welcomes us back home
And makes it easier to part.

A hug's a way to share the joy
And sad times we go through,
Or just a way for friends to say
They like you 'cause you're you.

Hugs are meant for anyone,
For whom we really care,
From your Grandma to your neighbours,
Or a cuddly teddy bear.

A hug is an amazing thing.
It's just the perfect way
To show the love we're feeling
But can't find the words to say.

It's funny how a little hug
Makes everyone feel good
In every place and language,
It's always understood.

And hugs don't need new equipment,
Special batteries or parts
Just open up your arms
And open up your hearts.

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........εїз ★☆ Sweet Dreams ☆★

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Sweetdreams Big Lad xXxXxXx

Tina Coulson

May 29, 2010

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Happy 55th birthday missing u terribley

Kaitlynn (Granddaughter)

May 6, 2010

Happy Birthday Big Lad xXx

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Your Wondering If I'll Celebrate
My Birthday (Way Up Here)
I Know Your Missing Me Today
I Feel Your Essence Near.
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God Planned A Special Day For Me
He Told Me With A Wink
Hhe Ordered Me A Special Cake
(It's Angel Food I Think)
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Im Getting Lots Of Hugs From God
He's Realy Good At That
And Every Time That I Walk By
He Gives My Head A Pat
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Balloons Will Fill The Streets For Me
They Float Up Through The Clouds
And We Have Lots Of Clowns Up Here
That Make Us Laugh Out Loud
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There's A Birthday Carousel
Jeweld Horses Ride The Wind
With Music Playing. Ho So Sweet....
The Magic Never Ends
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Tina Coulson

May 4, 2010

xXx Happy Birthday Tony xXx



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♫♬ HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR TONY ♫♬

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Sweet Dreams Big Lad
Hope Ya Rocking In Heaven Tonight
Show Them How Its Done Tony
Love Tina xXxXxXx

Tina Coulson

May 4, 2010

Happy Birthday

Sorry its been some time since I was last on but there is soo much going on at the minute its unreal, I know you's will be watching over us all, and shaking your heads, but please guide those who need guiding in the right direction. I have so many different thoughts going through my head at the minute and just want to get to the botttom of it, im finding it really hard to deal with those thoughts, but I know at the end of the day everything will work out for the best. Anyway im sending lots of hugs and kisses up there for you tonight Tony as you will be 27 tomorrow, so HAPPY BIRTHDAY, as I might not be able to get on tomorrow, I wished you were here to spend it with all the family who miss you SOOOOO much, especially your mam, dad and Rikki. I know you sit on your mam's bed on a night time as you came to see me and sent me the message, im soo gratful you did that as it put your mam's mind at peace knowing that, you kept saying Sorry, we understand, but it still hurts like mad. Anyway hope your Uncle Alan don't get you too drunk tomorrow, and im sending him a great big kiss as he was the best Dad anyone could have wished for. I will be back on Thursday Dad o wish you a Happy Birhday too, all my love and forever in my thoughts Bev xxx
Also not forgetting Nanna Mons, xxxx

Beverley Hay (Daughter)

May 3, 2010

THE TINY BUNNY

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The tiny bunny
Is working all day long
Decorating Easter eggs
While humming a song

He is having so much fun
Making eggs for you and me
And small chocolate bunnies
That he gives away free

But when he is finished
He'll bring them your way
In a big coloured basket
Upon Easter day

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Happy Easter xXx

Tina Coulson

April 3, 2010
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